I've made crazy progress in the last couple of weeks. As a result of that, I've managed to get my grubby hands onto SQL and I've even wrestled with which database management system to use. I used Digital Oceans' succinct article to settle on PostgreSQL.
Unfortunately, unlike the SQLite I'm a bit more familiar with, PostgreSQL databases (DB) don't come in one handy portable file. I spent maybe a couple of hours poking around the PostgreSQL directory wondering where the DB was. Then I googled it and read some articles a bit more closely and figured out it's more complicated than a single manifestation in a single locus.
So, using the vocabulary I had, I googled "how to export PostgreSQL database" and a couple of other variants related to it. Didn't work. But at some point, I found out that you have to do a dump. That gets you a file you can move around. But not many were good at explaining it, or even the concept of it. Finally, I read the documentation here and thought, this should be easy. But once I'd done a pg_dump, I couldn't find the file. I spent another couple of hours trying out various things.
Then, finally, finally, I YouTubed "postgresql dump" or something like that and found this silent video. I watched it carefully and realised that the dump is created in the directory from which I work in the command line. And that has not been mentioned in all the previous places I'd looked in, including the documentation. Maybe it's obvious to experts. But beginners need something a bit more explicit.